Jefferson Fisher, a Texas attorney, has built a big following on social media with people who needed advice to deal with stressful, conflict-ridden situations. Recently, The New York Times ran story about Jefferson and his work. Since almost everyone is dealing with a lot of conflict, especially these days where even whole families are at each other’s throats, we wanted to pass Jefferson’s thoughts and tips to reduce the conflict in your life and resolve things peacefully.

Fisher, who is now a star on Tik Tok and Instagram with millions of followers. His best-selling book: The Next Conversation: Argue Less, Talk More, is a wealth of information on how to relearn how to talk to people, an important life skill that’s disappearing because of digital technology and the shrinking opportunities to actually have a back and forth conversation with a real person.

Click HERE to read the the rest by NYT reporter Julia Bozzone.